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Dating scammer Brenda Garcia


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Name: Brenda Garcia


Her 'Handle' on Yahoo Messenger is sweetdovebrenda, or sweetdove89101

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Now listed on the dating site as a VIP Member (avg cost: $22. per month for VIP status, vs 'Free' for regular members, got to give her credit, as it adds to the vision that she's 'Real'. Says she's 5'8' tall, 27 yrs old, single. Wants to start a relationship.. don't they all.
Anyway, per my 'gut' feeling, I started the Net search, and found your Romancescams Site; I commend you for it. I was going through same and spotted her photo, per comment logged on 11/17/06, 20:08:57, a different pose, but same dress, and left my comment on that site at 00:21:45 re: her, which you then printed, Thanks. She originally had sent me add'l photos last weekend when I asked, so I thought that I'd share them for posting. Never have sent out $$ to her or anyone else for that matter, but by her comments in 2nd E-mail, saying in part, I quote (per her grammer), '
'But right now things arent fine wit me and dis could be stopping this relationship,i feel you can help me get things right but i think u might be mad at me to hearing this,so i would be needing your help.'...I always get a kick out of the way they write, sorta like the same as the way they talk. Good 'clue' is the word 'because', always typed as 'cos', normally found in their mail, as when you read the initial Profile or Bio on these Dating sites, the grammer is almost perfect. So I guess they get others to write the Site lingo. I'll have to admit, like most men, no matter how educated we are, a pretty nice body/face will almost get us every time, and with their forlorn stories awaking our compassionate nature, like helping a poor puppy, but our 'gut' feelings should never be ignored. In anything I do, I try to listen to these other 'feelings', and the saying 'been there, done that', then takes on a whole new meaning...Just thought I'd share, for the rest of you Guys out there.

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2007-03-24, 22:09:46
anonymous from United States  
dudes, she tried scamming me on I wish we could send these people to jail .
2007-03-27, 13:26:27   (updated: 2007-03-27, 13:31:44)
[hidden] from Madison in Alabama, United States  
I met this person on a christian website called singles net. She went by the name KC. She told me her real name was Kelsey slater, her yahoo email was, she also started a MySpace account under that email. She said that she was 31 yrs old and lived in Ilorin Nigeria. We have been talking online for the past few months. I fell for her lies as she said she was God fearing and wanted a relationship etc. and she never talked about sex or sent porn pics. She told me she needed out of Nigeria due to the politics and violence. She asked if I could help with a plane ticket to the USA. She also stated how much she was in love with me.

Her sad story was that her dad died in Ideho when she was 10 yrs old and she moved to Nigeria with her mother (Janet Slater) and has been there ever since. She wanted me to originally western union 1500.00 to her uncle, Michael William as she just had her passport renewed and was unable to pick up the money. She finally dropped the price to 500.00 stating her uncle and her mom would pay the remaining part of the ticket. My ex wife and I started doing ip searchs on her and her mother and it was coming up as unknown and the other ip address was coming out of a isp called constallation net corp put of michigan. The ip addresses were She states she was unable to receive mail and she claims that she texted me from a payphone, whcih you are unable to do. That number was 234 803 241 3002. 234 is the country code and 803 is the area code which is coming out of Abaja Nigeria. I fiqured it out when my ex wife came across this site and searched the pictures she sent and guess what they matched the pics on this site. People like her give dating sites a bad name. Hope this helps.
2007-04-04, 04:02:26
anonymous from United States  
I am on a Jeepingsingles website. I apparently got messages from this scammer from there believe it or not!

Thanks for the heads up !!
2007-04-14, 11:49:44   (updated: 2007-04-14, 11:52:54)
anonymous from United States  
Yes there are alot of scams on yahoo messenger, they come Nigeria & they want $$ to fly to the USA. these scum bags are filthy sleazy people who post photos of pretty's one of them from yahoo messenger. Her/him email is
I exposed this one when i asked for a naked photo, they could not produce one at first, then sent a few photos of some girl that was clearly NOT the girl from this photo.

2007-04-14, 14:02:18
jue ala kontaktu ou mroco
2007-04-14, 14:04:01 from Morocco  
ala bile kontaktu
2007-04-14, 15:41:20
anonymous from United States  
They are ALL men!!! The majority of pix are stolen from various web sites both public and pro modeling.They also copy/paste peoples profile info and use it,that's why the grammer is good in some. The red head in this thread is 'JC' stolem from Focushawaii
a modeling site.The other is probably a model too,the pix are just to good!
Remember! When looking for info on a my friend
2007-05-04, 06:08:44
She tried to get me via by sending me a nice generic email that she hadn't even bothered to tailor to my profile :)

Her OKCupid profile is http://www.okcupid...?u=kecceee
2007-06-02, 21:29:17
it/she is still at it at okcupid, no more, face-pic as kelly4u guy
i have the same pictures, she even has a cousin named mary,
still goes to the hospital to get her injections for 'the pain'
she is so much in love and still wants to get married,just send her
1500.00 then 800.00, i told her/it that i would go there and visit
reply,' its too dangerous for a visit, has a friend blogun afeez, that will be
glad ot pick up your western union money, as she has no nigerian passport
its still going people, beware, i like the justice department story
2007-06-02, 21:34:33
another address 19. cresent close.G.RA kwara stae nigeria
Ph# 2438032413002, dont call it i didnt but i would'nt think it
would be cheap, cant someone get this person off the street.
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2007-07-17, 20:54:10
anonymous from Vail, United States  
This is a passport that she sent me under the name of Chantel Floria Flake. She is using Webdate to do her scamming. She is also on under several alias. I know I have seen her at least 3 different times with different names.

2007-08-08, 15:56:56
anonymous from Iceland  
Another dating / chat scam - USA/ Nigeria connection
Scam Artist Anna from Yoshkar-Ola
hello, this one does not stop, here is a mail she sent me today:

From: Sydneylooking1
Date: 08/08/2007 06:30
Subject: Hi .. Cutie Email me ....
Message: Hello.
My name is Sydney, I am born in Fortville IN, am 31 yrs, i'm divorced with one kids. i'm Caring.honest,trustworthy,loyal,romantic,intelligent,god-fearing lady, i have being hurt so badly in my past relationship, so I want to meet a serious and well behaved person that will be honest and not here to play game right on here. I would like to get to know you more better. You can reach me back through my private email address so i can send you my pics and tell you more about myself. Ok! Im a very open and honest person. I am seriously looking for my second half Which I would love and Give all my love.

My email address is: and My Yahoo Messenger ID is: Sydneylove_albert001

I will be expecting your email and you can aswell add and IM me if you will like to chat with me

I am Looking For a Life Partner Member Name: Sydneylooking1
Member ID: S016378
Hispanic / Latino, 31, Divorced Fortville, Indiana
United States

Personal Details

Gender: Female
Age: 31 (3-Jan-1976)
Race: Hispanic / Latino
Marital Status: Divorced
Children: 1
Religion: Christian / Catholic
Drinking: I'm A Social Drinker
Smoking: Never
Food: Vegetarian
Occupation: Banking / Finance
Education: High school
Languages: English (Fluent)

Interests: Music - Rock
Travel / Sightseeing
Movies / Cinema

Eye Colour: Blue
Hair Colour: Blonde
Body Type: I'm Normal Build
Height: 5'06' - (167 cm)

Sydneylooking1 is offline
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General Information
Well, not to talk much right on here, My name is Sydney. I'm
born in USA and raise up in Yugoslavia ...I am
caring,honest,passionate,god-fearing,trustworthy woman
...Will tell you more abt me later

I'm 5ft 6 inch ... Blonde hair ..Average size ..Tell you

Looking for
I'm looking for a
nd a responsible man that doesn't fool around, I mean ...i'm
looking for a serious man that's ready to settle down for
good, I am such a woman that has being hrut so badly in my
past and i would want that to happen to me anymore. I want
real love
Gender: Male
Age From: 33
Age To: 76

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2007-08-24, 20:12:09   (updated: 2007-08-24, 20:38:26)
anonymous from United States  
Tried to get me...started talking to me on Yahoo Messenger...
2007-08-24, 20:36:59
anonymous from United States  
yeah, she is using the name Brenda Garcia still ( and saying she went to China with her family who just sold all their property in the States and that they were attacked in China and she is the only survivor....and she needs $200 to pay some hospital bill so she can get her things (return ticket, passport, etc) and that when she comes back to the states here she will claim her inheritance in California of $160 Million and come live with me and love me (all of this in the FIRST conversation mind you)...then she asked me when I could get the money for her and I found this on a internet search...asked her to explain it and got NO response...IMAGINE THAT....LOL...look out now...what does that tell you???...she is still out there scamming people...She claimed to me that she was from Denver...
2007-09-01, 13:51:17
anonymous from United States  

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