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Name: Rhoda Means


Accra, Ghana

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One of at least two scammers operating out of Accra, Ghana. Scam: Orphaned 26 year old who's father and younger sister died in 9/11 Twin Trade Towers. She claims to be born in Maryland (see picture of passport), a nursing student at a nursing hospital near Accra. Looking for Mr. Right, falls in love with you instantly. Normally contacts through a dating site on the web. I caught 'her' when the second party came on with a different background for this girl. Had a load of fun teasing them along to the point where they thought they hooked a rich dumb American - first class tickets to the US. $10,000 for spending money, etc. They are greedy bastards and the more you offer the more they slobber. It was fun to turn the tables for once.

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2008-01-16, 19:46:04
anonymous from United States  
Beware of a young lady who goes by the name of Matilda Ofori.. Like one other comment I ahve seen on these pages, I was scammed into forwarding a package from the US to her in Ghana.. Soon I started receiving multiple packages fro a so called friend of this individual. I contacted the FBI and US Secret service as the merchandise was being purchased with stolen credit cards...

She and another lady by the name of Cecial Dankor should be watched for....
2008-02-07, 02:43:57
anonymous from Italy  
That's another photos of scam Muniru SalaH, your address and your new nickname

nickname Sabribella T and blessing boutique
ADRESS...9641 k.i airport
west africa
2008-07-15, 21:24:09 from Phoenix, United States  
Met this one on Me On You web page. Similar to case above, same photo of model, Raven Riley.
email address You can spot them all over because they will plant their Yahoo address in the titile or in the descrition.

ZIP CODE: 00233

Here is the profile used on that web page.

31 year old Woman
Looking for: 1-on-1 Relationship, Discreet Relationship, Group Sex, Photo Exchange,
Cybersex, Voyeurism, BDSM, Kinky Sex, Other

Gender:     Woman
Gender Interested In:     Man
Age:     31
Sexual Orientation:     Straight
Location:     Montgomery, AL, United States
Marital Status:     Single
Height:     5' 6'
Body Type:     Average
Hair Color:     Black
Eye Color:     Blue
Bra Size:     30 AA
Smoking:     Tell you later
Drinking:     Don't Drink
Education:     Graduate Degree
Children:     No
Ethnicity:     Black/African Descent
Introduction:     Ask Me!
Sexual Interests:     Ask Me!
Your Perfect Mate:     Ask Me!

I was really interested in her bra size, 30AA nice and tight.
Just like the tiny little picture they posted on the profile.

2008-07-15, 21:29:37 from Phoenix, United States  
More on Kate Adomaah from Ghana - email address
Here is their first email to me with IP address.

from [] by via HTTP; Sat, 14 Jun 2008 03:45:36 PDT
From: Kate Adomaah <>
Subject: Re: Me & You

Hello Handsome,

Thank you very much for your email and i am hoping that all is well with you. I am sorry that i have not been in contact for a while now and I am hoping that you for give me some that,and also thank you very much emailling and for your complement to me i really love your idea. This email tells you all about my self and what i am looking for and also some of my pictures.

To tell you about my self..... I am Kate Adomaah and I am 31 single , no kids, 5-6 ft tall, 139 lbs., black hair and fair colour. Am from Cape Town but Now in Ghana due my eduucation. I was in the state with Aunty I had the oppotunity i am looking for yo come to Ghana to study more since Ghana is one of the Serious and good country when it comes to education. And also Ghana is the most peaceful conuntry to learn in.

Well is cool now and everything is alright and fine with me just looking for that caring and loyal man as i have found that am old and need a new love and lasting one as i have been hurt before and dont need to be again.....I dont care about age neither the distance,Do you Know Ghana? Well it is In west africa Along the Coast.........

I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.

I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.

As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ;

I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.

I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or 'play' me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over.

I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well.

I realize that I am 31 years old and that you are somewhat Older than me,but i dont care about age or who you are as true love is blind for this.. if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding.

I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you.

Kate Adomaah

2008-07-15, 21:47:17 from Phoenix, United States  
More on Kate Adomaah from Ghana - email address
Here is their fouth email to me with IP address.

Received: from [] by via HTTP; Fri, 20 Jun 2008 10:53:58 PDT
Date: Fri, 20 Jun 2008 10:53:58 -0700 (PDT)
From: Kate Adomaah <>
Subject: Re: Good Morning - TGIF

Good Afternoon Handsome XXXXX, Thank you soo much for your email and i am hoping that all is well with you and that you are doing fine as i am doing my dear, I am really greatful that you have this much love in you and willing to share with me , i will also love you and make you happy all my life okay, Thanks for the pictures and this is my address i will love you to get me a camera like what i have in the pictures or any you can afford for me there.

ZIP CODE: 00233

I am willing to love you and make you as you will love me and make me yours too. As it is writing that Let no one be satisfied with simple physical pleasure, cause it doesn't approach fleeting bliss if one's soul still shrieks for it's mate and the love it is due, Two hearts that have been merged is marriage; two souls that have been merged is fate.The best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain.

There is only one this that i use say is that , It will better for me the woman to go for a man who really and truely love me from his heart and willing to be with me than to go for some one I love. I can tell you whom i love but i can never tell you the one who loves me and it is easy for some one to tell me He loves me, but left for me to prove his love for me and that is why i will not play with your heart or soul for any thing okay, All i will do is love you and love you more as you really love me too.

I dont care much about your drinking and smoking habbit okay, the love is more important to me and there is no great feeling than to fall in love with some one who truely love you and willing to be with you all his or Her life.No matter how ugly you think you are, that special someone that loves you believes you are the most beautiful and irresistable thing on earth and nothing can ever change that. I am not saying you ungly okay but i am hoping you understand what i am talking about.

All i will say is that , let me get the camera and i will give you more pictures of what you really want to see okay and even more, but at the moment all i will like from you is that true love and understanding and caring , and when all this is giving, you have my love and my life all by your self alone and i will love you with all my heat and soul and make you my dream come true. I am hoping that you are doing fine and i will get to ready from you again handsome. All my love from my heart and soul to you. Kisses and Hugs

Kate Adomaah

2008-07-15, 21:54:43   (updated: 2008-07-15, 21:55:55) from Phoenix, United States  
More on Kate Adomaah from Ghana - email address

I shut them down by reporting the scam to Yahoo. You can do this too by sending them information that proves that this is a scam for money from Ghana or Nigeria. Send your information to Then check on the email address in a few days after they give you an answer that it was shut down.

This message was created automatically by mail delivery software.

A message that you sent could not be delivered to one or more of its
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Before that I let them know that they had been caught and will pay the price. My special Dear Yahoo Boy letter.

Kate, I want to know how it feels to lie, cheat and steel to get everything you want? Also how does it feel when you've been scammed yourself by someone like me? That's right, I knew you were a scamming Yahoo Boy from the first letter you sent to me. I can't believe how you Yahoo Boys will ask for money. I've heard every story there is out there too. You send me all these phony pictures that are stolen off of the internet and expect me to fall head over heals in love with you.

You ask me to send you a camera, then it will be an airline ticket to come and live with me. But you never will come here because something happens on the way. An accident maybe puts you in the hospital or customs seize you property and put you in jail. Then you ask for more money and more money and it never ends until you SUCK your victim dry ! So you little blood sucking Yahoo Boy that can't make an honest living, what are you going to do now?

2008-07-16, 02:25:39
Hi guys,
I received an email of a girl from cheboksary(Russia).
She talks me abuot marrige, future children, etc.
Then she sent me a photo of a group of her friends.
It looks like I have already seen somewhere on the net the girl at the centre
of the picture with blonde and straight hair.
Can anyone help me to know if her or other girls of the group are scammers?
elmoro from Italy

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2008-08-01, 19:28:56
anonymous from United States  
i have also been scamed these people are so funny they actually think we beilieve this. they want us to send them money for a calling card and just keep going
2008-09-23, 15:02:07
anonymous from United States  
anastaysia tried to get me early this summer I played along until she ask for the money and then I told her how bad she was busted I think kate from above is after me now going by caringlady4real@yahoo. she sent me an email today say she need to talk to me it was urgent and how much she loves me and I sent one back telling her how broke I am probably never hear from her again
2008-09-26, 23:22:12   (updated: 2008-09-26, 23:24:18)
anonymous from United States  
I have just come across two young women from Accra Ghana, both of whom come on like gangbusters. One is quiet and more subtle, but the other is really blatant. She has asked me for a new computer, a ticket to the US and a cell phone and I have only been chatting with her for two weeks. I smell it coming, having been through a similar thing with a Nigerian by the name of Mary (usual stuff-hot pictures, tales of bad things happening, need money. Little gifts I am Ok with, but they want the big stuff. NO THANKS.
BTW, regarding Russian Girls. A friend has been to the Black Sea resorts and has said that they outnumber the guys about 10 to 1 and will do just about anything. He says that they are really scary chicks. He found out the hard way. Married one, then divorced her here in the US. She got a free ride.
2008-12-04, 17:15:57
anonymous from United States  
Anyone seen this email address being used for a 'Travel Organization' In Ghana?

Allegedly is supposed to be the email to a representative for the 'Travel Organization' that will help Nana Ama Manu. She states that her former ...'love'...(?)..I guess was killed in an unfortunate airplane crash on his way to Russia for a 'business meeting'. She was left 'alone' for the past year and has recently (within the past 6 months) started looking for a new...'lover'...I guess..

Any info you have on this would be greatly appreciated...
2008-12-15, 19:52:32
anonymous from Andover, United States  
Watch this lady, very crafty and convincing. Took me for several thousand. Went by Samed Samba.
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Dating scammer Osei Kwesi Accra Ghana from Accra, Ghana

2009-01-25, 08:51:22
anonymous from United States  
she keepd asking how much Im sending money
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2009-01-26, 14:03:57
anonymous from United Kingdom  
2009-02-21, 00:07:22
anonymous from United States  
thanks for tip she is very good
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